美國媽媽命令5歲女兒「絕對不可以做這13件事」,超有智慧教育被封「地表最棒家長」!

教育必須從小開始,在成長過程中,每一位家長總是急切地告訴孩子「該做與不該做的」,希望能培養孩子們正向、正確的價值觀。

 

最近這位美國的母親,親自為5歲女兒寫下了一張「不可以做的事」的清單,看來似乎在嚴厲地命令女兒,但內容卻充滿了智慧與愛!讓全球網友大讚「地表最棒家長」! 

 

 

To my daughter, . Don't apologize when someone else bumps into you. . Don't say "sorry to be such a pain." You're not a pain. You're a person with thoughts and feelings who deserves respect. . Don't make up reasons as to why you can't go out with a guy you don't wanna go out with. You don't owe anyone an explanation. A simple "no thanks" should be acceptable. . Don't overthink what you eat in front of people. If you're hungry, eat, and eat what you want. If you want pizza, don't get a salad just because other people are around. Order the damn pizza. . Don't keep your hair long to make someone else happy. . Don't wear a dress if you don't want to. . Don't stay home because you don't have anyone to go out with. Take yourself out. Have experiences by yourself and for yourself. . Don't hold back your tears. Crying means you're feeling something that needs to get out. It's not a weakness. It's being human. . Don't smile because someone told you to. . Don't be afraid to laugh at your own jokes. . Don't say "yes" to be polite. Say "no" because it's your life. . Don't hide your opinions. Speak up and speak loudly. You should be heard. . Don't apologize for being who you are. Be brave and bold and beautiful. Be unapologetically you. . #parentlife #parenting #momlife #stronggirl #strongwoman #daughtergoals #daughters #momanddaughtergoals #momanddaughter #strongwoman #strongwomen #motherhood #motherhoodlife #motherhooduncut @todaysparent @todayparents

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以下,我們就來一起看看這張超有智慧的「不可以清單」吧:  

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給我親愛的女兒:

1.當別人撞到你時,你不需要道歉。

2.不要說「對不起,我是一個麻煩」,你不是一個麻煩。你是一個有自己想法和感受,以及值得被他人尊重的人。

3.當你不想和一個男生出去時,你不需要找理由拒絕。只要簡單地回:「不,謝謝」—因為你不欠任何人解釋。

4.在別人面前吃東西時,你不需要想太多。如果很餓,就吃吧!吃你想吃的任何食物。如果你想吃披薩,就點披薩!不要因為有其他人在,而改點一份沙拉。

5.你不需要為了取悅別人一直留長髮。

6.如果你不想要,你可以不要穿洋裝。

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